I might be a widow, yet life goes on :-)

Ik beschrijf mezelf als:

Enthusiastic, energetic, generous, loving, affectionate touchy/feely person, healthy, adventure-seeking woman hoping to find a similar type man to discover this awesome life and phase we find ourselves in :-)...I love gardening so obviously and most definitely eating... LOL... swimming, golf, boating, hiking, biking, traveling, HUMOR, cooking/uncooking (rawfood) or more realistically working on a more rounded healthy cleansing lifestyle for sure yet not dogmatic as I have to lose a few pounds...haaa...and would love a partner to enjoy working on that together...spiritual not religious...pretty much am a solid "try-anything-once" kind of adventurous type...would like to horseback ride more...have gr8 relationship w my stepkids who are my kids/grandkids...luv to read, research, seminars...love to be of service and consider myself an activist and proud of it...luv to hang at my home and relax as well as go go go...balance is important and I crave it more and more as the years fly by (so I can veg out like the best of em too - totally need downtime)...kids live on their own so enjoy my alone time and thrive on it actually...I'm not a needy person, nor want to feel smothered...altho I believe life is to be shared with someone you like, enjoy or love
...love to be yourself w thru all the thrilling (good, bad, ugly) and mysterious happenings in this thing called life :-/) !

Honesty, trustworthiness and loyalty are hallmarks I exude and expect as well from anyone that will be in my life...we all have issues or baggage of some sort, yet a mindset of acceptance and compromise from open communication can eleviate most anything and ultimately a sense of humor fixes all!

I was blessed to be married for almost 25 years b4 becoming a widow...know what a phenomenal relationship is...and while I don't need a man, bc I'm self-reliant and financially stable, I do find I miss that indescribable bond between 2 people that want to be around one another ...so seek and want to cultivate that unforgettable connection.

Sterrenbeeld

Tweelingen

Mijn Lichaamstype Is

Een paar extra kilo's

Mijn Lengte Is

5' 6 (1.68 m)

Mijn Ogen Zijn

Groen

Mijn Ethniciteit Is

Blank

Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is

Weduwe

Ik Heb Kinderen

Ja - Niet Bij Mij Thuis

Mijn Haar Is

Donkerblond

Ik heb één of meer van deze

Hond

Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is

Gepensioneerd

Mijn specialisatie is

Restaurants / Catering

Mijn functie is:

retired court reporter

Ik Woon

Alleen, Met Huisdier(en)

Ik heb

HSV-2 (herpes type 20)

Bij mij thuis

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Ik Ben Een Roker

Nee

Ik Drink

Ja - Een Of Twee

In sociale situaties ben ik

Grappig, Vriendelijk, Opmerkzaam, Gezellig

Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn

Koken, Fitness, Gezin, Vissen / Jagen, Internet, Tuinieren, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Films, Muziek, Fotografie, Kaarten spelen, Lezen, Sport, Theater, Reizen, Vrijwilligerswerk

Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is

Extreme sporten, Met Vrienden zijn, Naar een museum gaan, Een boek lezen, Relaxen, Thuis blijven, Films, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Tv

Een perfecte eerste date is

not sure what "ideal" is anymore in anything - haaa...suffice it to say I'm not shallow, altho easy on the eyes & intuitively (comfort, connection, chemistry); easy on conversation (maybe never ends);easy on making each other laugh; easy to be ourselves no matter what we chose is a homerun in my book

Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:

Traveling to somewhere new & staying for a month whether in a hotel, eco-friendly off grid or horseback trip outdoors...
Skydiving...maybe :-)
Backpack in Bali or Thailand,
Learn a new language that sticks...
Having a mate that loves to cook(esp together)...
Finding out I can play an instrument (other than clarinet in elementary school LOL)...
Being a Vegan for longer than a week :-)...learning how to paint/water colors...
I'm sure the list could be endless as I have zest for life, adventure and learning new things...not that I'm unfulfilled, the opposite; yearn to experience many unexpected things til the day I take my last breath within balance and reason

Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als

Vriendelijk, Cool

Mijn Geloof Is

Spiritueel Maar Niet Religieus

Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is

to make sure the ones I care about feel listened to, happy, supported & loved; share my knowledge w others without any agenda; facilitate others in their endeavors; have no regrets (well, wish I didn't have Herpes :-)as that was unfortunate yet not a death sentence being I was told I'm more a carrier, mostly dormant and not an issue) and want to keep it that way !!! I mean sh*t happens, it's how you deal with it :-)

Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is

Camp, Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Gek, Obscuur

Op tv kijk ik:

Nieuws, Documentaires, Drama's, Komedies, Educatief, Films, Sport

In de bioscoop kijk ik:

Actie, Komedie, Drama, Gezin, Thriller

Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar

Ambient, Blues, Klassiek, Country, Electonische Muziek , Folk, Jazz, New Age, Pop, Rock

Ik lees graag

Klassiek , Comedy, Fictie, Gezondheid, Huis & Tuin, Humor, Educatief, Mysterie, Filosofie, Wetenschappelijk

Mijn Idee Van Plezier is

anything that brings joy, laughter and commradarie

Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?

Moed, Empathie, Goeie Vaardigheden, Humor, Intelligentie, Eigenaardigheden, Spontaniteit, Bedachtzaamheid, Gevatheid

Waar ben je naar op zoek?

Vriend, Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid