I might be a widow, yet life goes on :-)

Ich würde mich selbst beschreiben als

Enthusiastic, energetic, generous, loving, affectionate touchy/feely person, healthy, adventure-seeking woman hoping to find a similar type man to discover this awesome life and phase we find ourselves in :-)...I love gardening so obviously and most definitely eating... LOL... swimming, golf, boating, hiking, biking, traveling, HUMOR, cooking/uncooking (rawfood) or more realistically working on a more rounded healthy cleansing lifestyle for sure yet not dogmatic as I have to lose a few pounds...haaa...and would love a partner to enjoy working on that together...spiritual not religious...pretty much am a solid "try-anything-once" kind of adventurous type...would like to horseback ride more...have gr8 relationship w my stepkids who are my kids/grandkids...luv to read, research, seminars...love to be of service and consider myself an activist and proud of it...luv to hang at my home and relax as well as go go go...balance is important and I crave it more and more as the years fly by (so I can veg out like the best of em too - totally need downtime)...kids live on their own so enjoy my alone time and thrive on it actually...I'm not a needy person, nor want to feel smothered...altho I believe life is to be shared with someone you like, enjoy or love
...love to be yourself w thru all the thrilling (good, bad, ugly) and mysterious happenings in this thing called life :-/) !

Honesty, trustworthiness and loyalty are hallmarks I exude and expect as well from anyone that will be in my life...we all have issues or baggage of some sort, yet a mindset of acceptance and compromise from open communication can eleviate most anything and ultimately a sense of humor fixes all!

I was blessed to be married for almost 25 years b4 becoming a widow...know what a phenomenal relationship is...and while I don't need a man, bc I'm self-reliant and financially stable, I do find I miss that indescribable bond between 2 people that want to be around one another ...so seek and want to cultivate that unforgettable connection.

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Zwillinge

Mein Körpertyp ist

Ein paar Pfunde zu viel

Meine Größe ist

5' 6 (1.68 m)

Meine Augen sind

Grün

Meine Herkunft ist

Kaukasisch

Mein Familienstand ist

Verwitwet

Ich habe Kinder

Ja - nicht zuhause

Mein Haar ist

Dunkelblond

Ich habe ein oder mehrere folgende Haustiere

Hund

Mein derzeitiges Dienstverhältnis ist

In Rente

Meine Spezialität ist

Recht

Mein Job-Titel ist

retired court reporter

Ich lebe

Alleine, Mit Haustier(en)

Ich habe

HVS-2 (Herpes Type 20)

Zuhause

Freunde kommen gelegentlich vorbei

Ich bin Raucher

Nein

Ich trinke

Ja - Eine oder zwei

Mein soziales Verhalten ist

Comedian, Freundlich, Aufmerksam, Offen

Meine Interessen und Hobbys sind

Kochen, Trainieren, Familie, Fischen / Jagen, Internet, Gartenarbeit, Lernen, Filme, Musik, Fotografie, Karten spielen, Lesen, Sport, Theater, Reisen, Ehrenamtliche Arbeit

Meine Vorstellung einer tollen Zeit ist

Extremsport, Mit Freunden ausgehen, In ein Museum gehen, Ein Buch lesen, Entspannen, Daheim bleiben, Filme, Versuche neue Dinge, TV

Ein ideales erstes Date wäre

not sure what "ideal" is anymore in anything - haaa...suffice it to say I'm not shallow, altho easy on the eyes & intuitively (comfort, connection, chemistry); easy on conversation (maybe never ends);easy on making each other laugh; easy to be ourselves no matter what we chose is a homerun in my book

Ich wollte immer schon versuchen

Traveling to somewhere new & staying for a month whether in a hotel, eco-friendly off grid or horseback trip outdoors...
Skydiving...maybe :-)
Backpack in Bali or Thailand,
Learn a new language that sticks...
Having a mate that loves to cook(esp together)...
Finding out I can play an instrument (other than clarinet in elementary school LOL)...
Being a Vegan for longer than a week :-)...learning how to paint/water colors...
I'm sure the list could be endless as I have zest for life, adventure and learning new things...not that I'm unfulfilled, the opposite; yearn to experience many unexpected things til the day I take my last breath within balance and reason

Meine Freunde beschreiben mich als

Freundlich, Cool

Meine Religion ist

Spirituell aber nicht religiös

Mein Ziel im Leben ist

to make sure the ones I care about feel listened to, happy, supported & loved; share my knowledge w others without any agenda; facilitate others in their endeavors; have no regrets (well, wish I didn't have Herpes :-)as that was unfortunate yet not a death sentence being I was told I'm more a carrier, mostly dormant and not an issue) and want to keep it that way !!! I mean sh*t happens, it's how you deal with it :-)

Mein Art Humor ist

Überspitzt homosexuell/Tuntig, Clever, Trocken / Sarkastisch, Freundlich, Albern, Mysteriös

Im Fernsehen sehe ich mir Folgendes gerne an

Nachrichten, Dokumentationen, Dramen, Situations-Komödien, Anleitungen, Filme, Sport

Wenn ich ins Kino gehe, sehe ich immer

Action, Comedy, Drama, Familie, Thriller

Wenn ich mir Musik anhöre, höre ich immer

Stimmungsvoll, Blues, Klassik, Country/Volksmusik/Schlager, Electronic, Folk, Jazz, New Age, Pop, Rock

Wenn ich lese, lese ich immer

Klassik, Comic, Fiction, Gesundheit, Heim & Garten, Humor, Anleitungen, Mystery, Philosophie, Bezug

Meine Vorstellung von Spaß ist

anything that brings joy, laughter and commradarie

Was findest du attraktiv?

Kühnheit, Einfühlungsvermögen, Tolle Fähigkeiten, Humor, Intelligenz, Seltsamkeiten, Spontanität, Nachdenklich, Esprit

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