I might be a widow, yet life goes on :-)


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luv2garden

East Northport, New York | Mujer Buscando Hombre

Información Básica

Me describiría a mi mismo como
Enthusiastic, energetic, generous, loving, affectionate touchy/feely person, healthy, adventure-seeking woman hoping to find a similar type man to discover this awesome life and phase we find ourselves in :-)...I love gardening so obviously and most definitely eating... LOL... swimming, golf, boating, hiking, biking, traveling, HUMOR, cooking/uncooking (rawfood) or more realistically working on a more rounded healthy cleansing lifestyle for sure yet not dogmatic as I have to lose a few pounds...haaa...and would love a partner to enjoy working on that together...spiritual not religious...pretty much am a solid "try-anything-once" kind of adventurous type...would like to horseback ride more...have gr8 relationship w my stepkids who are my kids/grandkids...luv to read, research, seminars...love to be of service and consider myself an activist and proud of it...luv to hang at my home and relax as well as go go go...balance is important and I crave it more and more as the years fly by (so I can veg out like the best of em too - totally need downtime)...kids live on their own so enjoy my alone time and thrive on it actually...I'm not a needy person, nor want to feel smothered...altho I believe life is to be shared with someone you like, enjoy or love
...love to be yourself w thru all the thrilling (good, bad, ugly) and mysterious happenings in this thing called life :-/) !

Honesty, trustworthiness and loyalty are hallmarks I exude and expect as well from anyone that will be in my life...we all have issues or baggage of some sort, yet a mindset of acceptance and compromise from open communication can eleviate most anything and ultimately a sense of humor fixes all!

I was blessed to be married for almost 25 years b4 becoming a widow...know what a phenomenal relationship is...and while I don't need a man, bc I'm self-reliant and financially stable, I do find I miss that indescribable bond between 2 people that want to be around one another ...so seek and want to cultivate that unforgettable connection.
Signo
Géminis

Apariencia y Situación

Mi tipo de cuerpo es
Algún kilo de más
Mi altura es
5' 6 (1.68 m)
Mis ojos son
Verdes
Mi raza es
Caucásico
Mi situación marital es
Viudo
Tengo hijos
Si - No En Casa
Mi pelo es
Rubio Oscuro
Tengo uno o más de estos
Perro

Estatus

Mi situación laboral actual es
Retirado
Mi especialidad es
Legal
Mi trabajo es como
retired court reporter
Vivo en
Solo/a, Con Mascota/s
Tengo
HSV-2 (herpes tipo 20)
En casa
Los amigos visitan ocasionalmente
Soy Fumador
No
Soy Bebedor
Si - Uno o dos

Personalidad

Socialmente, me describiría como
Cómico, Amistoso, Observador, Extrovertido/a
Mis aficiones e intereses son
Cocinar, Hacer ejercicio, Familia, Pesca / Caza, Internet, Jardineria, Aprender, Películas, Música, Fotografia, Jugar a las cartas, Leer, Deportes, Teatro, Viajar, Voluntariado
Mi idea de un rato estupendo es
Deportes Extremos, Salir con amigos, Ir a un Museo, Leer un Libro, Relajarse, Quedarme en casa, Películas, Probar cosas nuevas, Televisión
Mi primera cita ideal sería
not sure what "ideal" is anymore in anything - haaa...suffice it to say I'm not shallow, altho easy on the eyes & intuitively (comfort, connection, chemistry); easy on conversation (maybe never ends);easy on making each other laugh; easy to be ourselves no matter what we chose is a homerun in my book
Siempre he querido probar
Traveling to somewhere new & staying for a month whether in a hotel, eco-friendly off grid or horseback trip outdoors...
Skydiving...maybe :-)
Backpack in Bali or Thailand,
Learn a new language that sticks...
Having a mate that loves to cook(esp together)...
Finding out I can play an instrument (other than clarinet in elementary school LOL)...
Being a Vegan for longer than a week :-)...learning how to paint/water colors...
I'm sure the list could be endless as I have zest for life, adventure and learning new things...not that I'm unfulfilled, the opposite; yearn to experience many unexpected things til the day I take my last breath within balance and reason
Mis amigos me describen como
Amistoso, Genial

Puntos de Vista

Mi religión es
Espiritual pero no religioso
Mi meta en la vida
to make sure the ones I care about feel listened to, happy, supported & loved; share my knowledge w others without any agenda; facilitate others in their endeavors; have no regrets (well, wish I didn't have Herpes :-)as that was unfortunate yet not a death sentence being I was told I'm more a carrier, mostly dormant and not an issue) and want to keep it that way !!! I mean sh*t happens, it's how you deal with it :-)
Mi sentido del humor es
Irónico/a, Inteligente, Seco / Sarcástico, Amistoso, Bobo, Oscuro

Gustos

En la TV, siempre veo
Noticias, Documentales, Dramas, Comedias de Situación, Educativos, Películas, Deportes
Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una
Acción, Comedia , Drama , Familia, Suspense
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Ambiente, Blues, Clásica, Country, Electrónica, Folk, Jazz, Nueva Era / New Age, Pop, Rock
Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es
Clásicos, Cómics, Ficción, Salud, Casa y Jardín, Humor, Educativos, Misterio, Filosofía, Referencia
Mi idea de diversión es
anything that brings joy, laughter and commradarie

Estoy buscando a

¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Audacia, Empatía, Grandes Habilidades, Humor, Inteligencia, Rarezas, Espontaneidad, Detallista, Ingenio
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Amigo/a , Cita, Íntimos, Comprometido