I might be a widow, yet life goes on :-)

Je me décrirais comme

Enthusiastic, energetic, generous, loving, affectionate touchy/feely person, healthy, adventure-seeking woman hoping to find a similar type man to discover this awesome life and phase we find ourselves in :-)...I love gardening so obviously and most definitely eating... LOL... swimming, golf, boating, hiking, biking, traveling, HUMOR, cooking/uncooking (rawfood) or more realistically working on a more rounded healthy cleansing lifestyle for sure yet not dogmatic as I have to lose a few pounds...haaa...and would love a partner to enjoy working on that together...spiritual not religious...pretty much am a solid "try-anything-once" kind of adventurous type...would like to horseback ride more...have gr8 relationship w my stepkids who are my kids/grandkids...luv to read, research, seminars...love to be of service and consider myself an activist and proud of it...luv to hang at my home and relax as well as go go go...balance is important and I crave it more and more as the years fly by (so I can veg out like the best of em too - totally need downtime)...kids live on their own so enjoy my alone time and thrive on it actually...I'm not a needy person, nor want to feel smothered...altho I believe life is to be shared with someone you like, enjoy or love
...love to be yourself w thru all the thrilling (good, bad, ugly) and mysterious happenings in this thing called life :-/) !

Honesty, trustworthiness and loyalty are hallmarks I exude and expect as well from anyone that will be in my life...we all have issues or baggage of some sort, yet a mindset of acceptance and compromise from open communication can eleviate most anything and ultimately a sense of humor fixes all!

I was blessed to be married for almost 25 years b4 becoming a widow...know what a phenomenal relationship is...and while I don't need a man, bc I'm self-reliant and financially stable, I do find I miss that indescribable bond between 2 people that want to be around one another ...so seek and want to cultivate that unforgettable connection.

Signe

Gémeaux

Ma silhouette est

Quelques kilos en trop

Ma taille est

5' 6 (1.68 m)

Mes yeux sont

Verts

Mon origine ethnique est

Caucasienne

Ma situation maritale est

Veuf/Veuve

J'ai des enfants

Oui - pas chez moi

Mes cheveux sont

Blonds foncés

J'en ai 1 ou plus

Chien

Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est

Retraité/e

Mon domaine de compétence est

Juridique

Mon titre de fonction est

retired court reporter

Je vis

Seul/e, Avec des animaux

J'ai

Herpès VHH2 (type 2)

Chez moi

Des amis passent à l'occasion

Je fume

Non

Je bois de l'alcool

Oui - de temps à autres

Socialement, je suis plutôt

Comique, Sympa, Observateur, Ouvert

Mes passions et loisirs sont

Cuisine, Faire de l'exercice, Famille, Pêche / Chasse, Internet, Jardinage, Apprendre, Films, Musique, Photographie, Jeux de cartes, Lecture, Sports, Théâtre, Voyages, Bénévolat

Un bon moment pour moi c'est

Sports extrêmes, Sortir avec des amis, Aller au musée, Lire, Me relaxer, Rester à la maison, Regarder un bon film, Faire de nouvelles expériences, Télévision

Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait

not sure what "ideal" is anymore in anything - haaa...suffice it to say I'm not shallow, altho easy on the eyes & intuitively (comfort, connection, chemistry); easy on conversation (maybe never ends);easy on making each other laugh; easy to be ourselves no matter what we chose is a homerun in my book

J'ai toujours voulu essayer

Traveling to somewhere new & staying for a month whether in a hotel, eco-friendly off grid or horseback trip outdoors...
Skydiving...maybe :-)
Backpack in Bali or Thailand,
Learn a new language that sticks...
Having a mate that loves to cook(esp together)...
Finding out I can play an instrument (other than clarinet in elementary school LOL)...
Being a Vegan for longer than a week :-)...learning how to paint/water colors...
I'm sure the list could be endless as I have zest for life, adventure and learning new things...not that I'm unfulfilled, the opposite; yearn to experience many unexpected things til the day I take my last breath within balance and reason

Mes amis me décrivent comme

Sympa, Cool

Ma religion c'est

Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses

Mon but dans la vie c'est

to make sure the ones I care about feel listened to, happy, supported & loved; share my knowledge w others without any agenda; facilitate others in their endeavors; have no regrets (well, wish I didn't have Herpes :-)as that was unfortunate yet not a death sentence being I was told I'm more a carrier, mostly dormant and not an issue) and want to keep it that way !!! I mean sh*t happens, it's how you deal with it :-)

Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt

Vicelard, Intelligent, Sarcastique, Sympa, Neuneu, Obscur/e

A la télévision, je regarde

Actualités, Documentaires, Drames, Sitcoms, Programmes instructifs, Films, Sports

Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours

Action, Comédies, Drames, Famille, Thrillers

Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est

Musique ambientale, Blues, Classique, Country, Electro, Folk, Jazz, New age, Pop, Rock

Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est

Littérature classique, Bandes-dessinées / Romans graphiques, Fictions, Santé, Maison & jardin, Humour, Programmes instructifs, Mystères, Philosophie, Œuvres de référence

Mon idée du fun

anything that brings joy, laughter and commradarie

Que trouvez-vous attirant?

Audace, Empathie, Talents, Humour, Intelligence, Etrangeté, Spontanéité, Délicatesse, Bon sens

Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?

Vrai‧e ami‧e, Rendez-vous, Relation intime, Engagement