"To see a World in a Grain of Sand"

First name

M

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Hope you are staying safe and healthy during this virus crisis and making sound, science-based choices.

Greetings …
I’m an emotionally available, thoughtful and generous man looking for a similar minded lady who understands and cultivates peace of mind. I’m originally from Sri Lanka and I enjoy rowing, traveling (8 countries and counting), swimming, volunteering, yoga, cooking, art, music, etc., trying new things, expanding and sharing my experiences.

My life is hardly conventional, but I embrace it with joy, gratitude and a twisted sense of humor. I have no issue responding to a question with “I don’t know.” That gives me the opportunity to learn something new/interesting all the time.

I was in committed relationship that lasted over one year and recently ended due to irreconcilable differences. However, I’m grateful for that time because I learnt and re-learnt things about myself which I hope to bring to your table. It is my nature to reciprocate and do so with interest. For example, if you are understanding and affectionate with me, I’ll be motivated to give back the same and more.

I am somewhat a Sapiophile and would love to meet an a secure, intelligent, self-confident, creative, empathetic, spontaneous woman with a great sense of humor. Someone who will compliment my life without complicating it. I would do the same for you :) Life is too short to waste time and energy on ego, pettiness, narrow-mindedness and drama. In a recent personality test I fell in the ESTJ (The Guardian) category and a S type in a DISC assessment. Usually there is a song, a joke, a grand scheme or a naughty thought running around in my head.

My taste in music span many genres from classical to blues, folk to rock, etc. I enjoy live music and was completely wowed by Hershey Felder as Beethoven and as Monsieur Chopin. A few years back I was in DC and had the privilege of seeing paintings by Van Gough, one of my favorite painters, among many other fabulous cultural sights. I could have spent a whole month in DC visiting museums, art galleries, etc.

I’m laid back and non-religious. However, I respect self-reflection, cultivating peace of mind and spirituality. CAUTION: I am quite liberal and progressive (thanks to many varied life experiences and soul searching). I'm a ****er for articulate, logical, brilliant, earth shaking points of view. We might not think alike but if we are adult enough to agree to disagree ... hell ... serendipitous things could happen.

I can’t wait to introduce you to my family and friends and hear from them how amazing you and how much I don’t de********* :)

“O grant me, Heaven, a middle state, neither too humble nor too great; more than enough, for nature’s ends, With something left to treat my friends.”
— David Mallet

Sign

Capricorn

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 7 (1.7 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Asian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

My Hair Is

Grey

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Research / Science / Engineering

My Job Title Is

Staff Engineer

I Make This Much In A Year

$100,000USD To $150,000USD

I Live

With Roomate(s)

I have

HSV-2 (herpes type 20)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - One Or Two

Back In High School, I Was A

Average Joe

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Dining, Exercising, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Learning, Music, Internet, Dancing, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Fishing / Hunting, Camping, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Engaging in some volunteer activity together and then having a nice relaxing meal with good conversation to get to know each other.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Fossil hunting, learn massage therapy, brewing, learn to play chess, scuba diving, and all these hopefully with you :)

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Goofy

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

Realize my full potential while learning every day, helping others and being the best companion I can be for my life-partner.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Raunchy

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, I Don't Like Tv

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Documentary

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Pop, Classical, Blues, Reggae, Folk

When I Read, I Always Read

Fiction, History, Humor, Political, Poetry, Satire, Science Fiction, Technical, Erotica, Supernatural

My Idea Of Fun Is

Will be updated soon.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

I’m looking for mutually uplifting companionship. Someone to eat, drink, dream and laugh with … a consummate partner in crime. Emotionally intelligence is essential and knowing what you want and what you can give.

If you make me laugh or laugh at my silly jokes, I will want to hug you. If you call me out, I will thank you. If you make me think, I will want to see you again. If you teach something unique/cool/useful/entertaining, I will remember you forever. However, if you think trump is qualified for public office, any more responsible than “dog catcher” … we won't have much to talk about.

Will you join me on my/our next adventure? By the way, I want to start taking dance lessons again and I would love to find a dance practice partner :)

I adore going out with someone who takes an active interest in doing something together. For example, if I make a suggestion and you are not up for it … please make a counter suggestion, or better yet, several :) We are all adults here and looking for uplifting moments in our usually busy and burdened lives. Hoping that the song in my heart resonates with the music in your soul.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed