Seeking evolving lady for romance +

First name

Christopher

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Hello, friend. I hope you find plenty of wonderful guys -- and find joy.

This evolving gentleman seeks an evolving lady for inspired co-evolution. Assuming you are spirit-filled, intelligent, wise, emotionally-grounded, gracious, independent, active, and fit, I'm interested in knowing you. I also hope you are complete with or without a man, and, like me, believe it will be more fun with a good partner.

What's important to me in a relationship is an irresistible force of attraction, friendship, companionship, and romance. I'm okay with a casual thing with an interesting person that satisfies some desires. However, I'm a one-woman man looking for a one-man woman, so some agreements will be in order.

Me? I'm an open book with lots of chapters and pages. Society accepts me fairly well, and yet I'm quite unconventional. I do know what I like and what I don't like, and I design my life with clarity and intention.

I'm an introvert who is also a performer (as a professional speaker) and quite adept at socializing -- I just get my fill of it quickly. When, after a day of work together, clients invite me for drinks or dinner I often say "I love you to death, and, I've had enough of you today".

I've been around the block and around the world. I've been a hippie, a stoner, a bit of a drunk, a scholar, a preppie, a business-owner, a suit, an author and speaker (current gig), a movement leader (also current gig), a country gentleman, shotgun coach, Kirby salesman, Eagle Scout (still am), committee chair, proud dad (emeritus), and devoted partner of 32 years (came to a close in early 2017).

My work is in deep personal change and growth. My clients are mostly executive leaders and executive-business-leadership coaches. It's a passion from which I may never retire. However, I'm my own boss so I do get to take all the mental health days I choose -- and I've taken a lot recently. After thirty years racking up millions of frequent flyer miles, I've been grounded since March -- and I'm at peace with this for now. My business is not doing as poorly as the airlines, but we are hurting. It's not fun to scale down, burn through cash, and let team members go, and, I will survive -- I always do -- and I am so fortunate compared to so many.

I've pursued the development of my own spirit, mind, and body most of my adult life, and have thousands of hours of clearing-releasing-auditing. I have delved into bodywork, energy work, wellness, religion, spirituality, movement, esoteric spirituality, meditation, nutrition, and exercise. This is fun since guiding others in their growth is my work.

Cycling is my first sport -- you'll find me racking up miles two or three days a week (want to ride?). I also do a lot of hiking, a little swimming (meet me at Barton Springs or Deep Eddie), and some strength training.

I know my way around a kitchen, enjoy plants (living breathing art), and have a home (and home office) on the east side where I enjoy hanging out among eclectic neighbors.

Speaking of eclectic, I enjoy rock, folk, jazz, soul, funk, blues, classical, pop, country, chanting, drumming...

To your highest good and greatest joy.

Sign

Aries

My Body Type Is

Athletic

My Height Is

6' 0 (1.83 m)

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Hair Is

Salt And Pepper

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Other

My Job Title Is

Author & Speaker

I Live

Alone

I have

HSV-2 (herpes type 20)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - One Or Two

Back In High School, I Was A

Outcast

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Friendly, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Exercising, Reading, Sports, Music, Travel, Cooking, Gardening

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book

An Ideal First Date Would Be

In pandemic time... a video call to get acquainted. Then meet for a hike, swim, or bike ride. Then dinner, here or there.

I've Always Wanted To Try

I've already tried it. (-:

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

I Don't Like Politics

My Goal In Life Is

Continue with my purpose of teaching others while being my highest and best.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

Dramas, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Ambient, Soul, Folk

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Biography, Religious, Science, I'm An Author

My Idea Of Fun Is

I live with joy, so fun is being in flow being and doing anything. Even better is doing it together.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

Consciousness + Intelligence + Vitality = Sexy

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Intimate, Committed