Down to say we met on Her...

First name

Haley

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I like caring for the people I love in the ways that matter to them; understanding deeply and feeling understood is important to me. When someone trusts me, I don’t take it lightly. I’m a thoughtful planner, rarely impulsive. I appreciate emotional/general-life stability.

Definitely a femme bottom, but don’t need to be a pillow princess. Prefer to give at least a little to a masc top - happy for more, if comfortable for you. Into some D/s, nothing extreme. Ultimately wanting a monogamous LTR.

I am a great listener, perceptive and empathic. Probably too sensitive; doesn’t take a lot to upset me, but also doesn’t take much to make me happy. I seek out authenticity, and value depth vs. breadth and quality over quantity in almost everything. Don’t love being the center of attention.

I am an introvert, so my social battery runs out fairly quickly, except when I’m with people I’m very close to. Only a really great trip can entice me to leave my own bed behind for long. I WFH and sometimes realize I haven’t left the house in a few days – and that doesn’t bother me at all. Work is financial compliance management and ...my bosses know they can rely on me, but I never confuse work with life.

I enjoy spending time with my niblings, but I’m not a parent and probably not compatible with a parent of small children. I love animals, especially all dogs; vegetarian+ fish, but you do you. Trying to meditate every day/cultivate stillness. I believe in the divine and post-death continuity, but am not religious.

Rowing 3-4 times/week, and taking reasonably good care of myself, I think. If you’ve gotten this far, I probably don’t need to say this, but I'm in very red SW FL, so I will – nooooo MAGA. I like documentaries, novels, nature if it’s not too hot, cold-brew coffee, lazy Sundays, inside jokes, history and psychology, talking about things that matter, antiques, raw cookie dough, binging true crime, the smell of rain and hardware stores.

Occasional drinker; 420 OK in moderation; no cigarettes please.

Sign

Virgo

My Body Type Is

Fit

My Height Is

5' 4 (1.63 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

No

I Want Kids

No

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Light Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Other

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

University Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Administrative / Management

My Job Title Is

Compliance Manager

I Live

Alone

I have

HSV-2 (herpes type 20)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Dining, Exercising, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Theater, Cooking, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Something low-key in an interesting or attractive setting; quiet enough that conversation is easy.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Playing the cello.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

I Attend Services

Never

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

Attaining stability and security in every major facet of life; cultivating genuine, meaningful relationships; living by my principles and contributing to causes I believe in; facilitating happiness and lessening suffering for myself and everyone I care about.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rap, Rock, Pop, Reggae

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Auto-biography, Biography, Business, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Instructional, Mystery, Nature, Political, Reference, Science, Erotica

My Idea Of Fun Is

Something fun and relaxing, 1:1 or in a small group - maybe get takeout and binge-watch true crime, have coffee at an outdoor cafe or poke around a book/antique store or museum.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

Please see "I Would Describe Myself As" section - I feel like commonality is the heart of compatibility, so looking for someone similar.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Date, Intimate, Committed