Cautiously Optimistic
COStrider
Colorado Springs, Colorado | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
I am a kind, caring, and gentle person who loves to laugh and enjoy life. I enjoy experiencing new adventures, love the outdoors and nature, and like to observe the good in people. I live alone and have been blessed with four wonderful grown children who are all healthy, happy, successful people. My kids say they got their silliness from me as I often like to find the humor in life. Although I can be a bit shy and reserved, I can also have a wild side when it feels right. Even though I like to be organized and have a plan, I also like to be flexible and let events spontaneously develop. I enjoy traveling, sailing, hiking, exploring, scuba diving, good food and good wine, and various kinds of music. I also enjoy the arts, reading, science, history, spiritual pursuits, meditation, investing, and playing a few sports (e.g. tennis, golf, disc golf, etc.). But while pursuing those and other activities are important to me, the time I spend with family, friends and those that I love are the most important parts of my life.
Sign
Cancer
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is
5' 11 (1.8 m)
My Eyes Are
Green
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Hair Is
Light Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
Yes
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Research / Science / Engineering
I Live
Alone
I have
HSV-1 (herpes type 10), HSV-2 (herpes type 20)
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Religion / Spirituality, Family, Dining, Photography, Exercising, Reading, Learning, Music, Dancing, Travel, Cooking, Fishing / Hunting, Camping
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Lunch at a quaint, family owed deli, with no further expectations beyond that. We can get to know each other a little better, find out if we have some chemistry to work with and want to pursue it further, enjoy some good food and conversation, and hopefully a few laughs. :)
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Goofy
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rock, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, New age, Soul, Reggae, Folk
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
My perfect match would understand that while travel, vacations and shared activities make for fun times and cherished memories, it’s how we navigate the ups and downs of daily life that will determine how successful and romantic our relationship will be. She equally shares in maintaining respect, honesty, trust, fidelity, integrity, humility, kindness, forgiveness, caring, understanding, acceptance and clear, open communication in our relationship, and values these as much as I do. She makes others feel accepted, comfortable, and welcome in her presence, and her smile and laugh are contagious, brightening any gathering or party she joins. She knows how to let her hair down and have fun, and others can’t help but to do the same when they’re with her. She likes the simple things in life. She is romantic and sensual, and enjoys giving her uninhibited love to me just as much as she enjoys receiving all the love I have for her. She is the best friend you could ever hope to have, and is a treasured, celebrated gift to those fortunate enough to have her in their lives. And, I'm looking forward to meeting you. ;-)
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed